There’s a world of difference between a man who chases you and a man who chooses you. One burns all his energy throwing out cheap “princess treatment” to cover up a bank account that’s emptier than his vision. The other is too busy building an empire to beg for attention — and when he’s done laying the foundation, he doesn’t chase butterflies… he crowns a queen worthy of ruling beside him. Science backs this up hard: studies from the Gottman Institute reveal that couples trapped in the old “pursuer-distancer” trap — where one partner is addicted to chasing and the other loves being chased — have an 83% chance of divorce within five years. That’s not romance — that’s a slow-motion heartbreak. Meanwhile, real kings operate on an entirely different frequency. Their secret weapon? Secure attachment, laser-sharp purpose, emotional self-regulation, and a legacy mindset. They don’t chase validation. They hand-pick

From Rock Bottom to Unstoppable If there’s one thing I know for sure—it’s that your lowest moments don’t define you. How you respond to them does. And trust me, I’ve had more than my fair share of those moments. The kind where you’re laying there, staring at the ceiling (or in my case, the inside of my car) thinking—how the hell did I get here? I’ve been knocked down more times than I can count. I’ve built things from scratch, just to watch them fall apart right in front of me. I’ve had days where I felt like a complete fraud, like no matter how hard I tried, I was never gonna “make it”—whatever the hell that even means. But here’s what I figured out: rock bottom isn’t the end. It’s the beginning.Before I was a life coach, before I was helping people turn their own setbacks into success—I was